Finding Healthy Sexuality After Sex/Porn Addiction

Scott Brassart Recovering sex and porn addicts inevitably ask, “What does healthy sex look like?” We ask this question because at some point we realize that we have no idea what non-addictive sex looks like. In our addiction, we so thoroughly separated our compulsive sexual behaviors from all other aspects of life that we are […]

Four Great Reasons to Quit Porn

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Scott Brassart Why do people decide to quit porn? It’s an interesting question, and after speaking with countless individuals (mostly men) on webinars, in drop-in discussion groups, in online workgroups, and at our Seeking Integrity: Los Angeles treatment center, it seems that there are multiple answers to this seemingly simple query. Generally, however, people decide […]

Is Your ‘Picker’ Broken?

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Scott Brassart As recovering sex and love addicts, we often feel like we have a broken picker, like we’re continually chasing relationships that are not right for us while discarding relationships that could be healthy. We seem to continually pair up with the wrong person, getting really excited about the spark of attraction we feel […]

Surrender to Win: The #1 Paradox of Addiction Recovery

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Scott Brassart The first step in every 12-step program of recovery and healing reads as follows: We admitted we were powerless over [our addiction]—that our lives had become unmanageable. So basically, when we enter treatment and 12-step recovery, we are asked to accept that we have lost the battle, that our problem has beaten us, […]

Online Workgroup for Male Sex and Porn Addicts, Level 2

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This workgroup is the follow-up to our workgroup for men new to the process of healing and recovery. To participate in Level 2, you must first have completed Level 1.  In this six-week workgroup, you will: Examine your sex and relationship history to find addictive patterns. Identify unmet dependency needs and develop a plan for […]

Protective (Filtering and Accountability) Software for Recovering Sex and Porn Addicts

Each year, Dr. Rob Weiss, Seeking Integrity’s Chief Clinical Officer, and Scott Brassart, Seeking Integrity’s Director of Content Development, look at “parental control” software products to determine which offerings are likely to work best for recovering sex and porn addicts. Their 2020 review was completed a few weeks ago and published in full at this […]