Meet Tami

Compassionate. Experienced. Supportive.

Tami creates a safe, judgment-free space for individuals and couples navigating the painful realities of betrayal trauma, and compulsive sexual behaviors. Whether you’re feeling lost, overwhelmed, or uncertain about your next steps, Tami meets you with deep empathy, personal experience, and the resources to help you move forward.

With decades of personal recovery and healing from betrayal trauma, she understands the depth of pain, confusion, and isolation that comes with this journey. More importantly, she knows healing is possible. Her goal is to provide clarity, encouragement, and the right tools to support you—whether you’re a betrayed partner, struggling with compulsive behaviors, or a couple working through the emotional complexities of betrayal and infidelity.

No shame. No pressure. Just real support from someone who truly understands.

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For Tami, this work is deeply personal. She has lived through the devastation of betrayal trauma, done the work to heal, and now dedicates her life to helping others do the same. With decades of recovery experience, she brings a unique combination of lived wisdom and professional knowledge, offering guidance that is both practical and deeply compassionate.

Tami is known for her ability to truly see and connect with those she supports, helping them gain insight, take meaningful next steps, and find hope even in the most challenging circumstances. She firmly believes that healing is possible for those willing to put in the work—and she is here to walk alongside you as you take those steps.

Tami understands that every recovery journey is unique, and she personalizes each session to meet you where you are. Whether you are struggling with compulsive behaviors, processing the pain of betrayal, or trying to rebuild a relationship, Tami offers targeted support and resources tailored to your specific situation.

“Recovery is so worth the effort. I wish I could give those reaching out the vision of what they can have IF they are willing to do the work. And hope—that they can heal.”

How Tami Can Help You

What You’ll Gain from a Support Session:

A Judgment-Free Space – A place where you can be heard and supported, no matter what you’re feeling
Personalized Guidance – Insight and strategies tailored to your specific situation
Breakthrough Moments – Clarity, validation, and a path forward in your recovery journey
Resources That Fit – Practical tools to help you take the next step

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FAQs – What You Need to Know

What happens in a support session?

Tami provides a compassionate space to talk openly, process emotions, and find clarity. Whether you’re seeking support as a betrayed partner, an addict, or wondering if you may have an addiction, she helps you take meaningful steps forward.

Is this therapy?

No, this is a support session designed to offer insight, validation, and guidance. If additional professional help is needed, Tami can recommend specialized resources.

Do I need to have completely stopped the problematic behaviors to book a session?

No. Recovery is a long-term process, and you don’t need to have fully stopped the problematic behaviors to seek support. Tami will meet you where you are—whether you’re still struggling with compulsive behaviors, have recently begun abstinence, or are starting to explore the idea of recovery.

Can my partner join a session?

Yes, couples can book a session together to identify the issues they are struggling with and receive resources to move forward.

How do I book a session?

Simply choose a session type, select a time, and confirm your booking using the links above.

What Others Are Saying

“I have searched endlessly for support—therapists, Google, everything. Then I stumbled across Seeking Integrity, which led to a session with Tami. That session changed the direction of my life. Tami truly sees people for who they are and meets them where they are.”

“Tami has an incredible ability to connect. She speaks with deep understanding, and I feel like she genuinely cares about me. She has guided me towards healing and a healthier future, both individually and in my relationship.”

“Listening to your podcasts helped me so much even before our session. The way you explain things makes so much sense—you truly get it.”

Tami is here to help you find hope, healing, and clarity. When you’re ready to take the next step, she’s ready to support you.