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- Have You Crossed the Line? A List of Common Boundary Violations
- Treating Sex/Porn Addiction and Simultaneous Issues/Disorders
- Betrayed Partners: Setting Healthy Boundaries
- Why Are Healthy Boundaries So Important?
- Addicts: How Do You Fill the Time After Addiction?
- Developing “Resilience” in Recovery
- Misconceptions and Facts About Healthy Boundaries
- Do Porn Addicts Experience Withdrawal When They Quit?
- Does Sexual Shame Drive Paired Substance/Sex Behaviors?
- When “Not Porn” is Still Porn
- Porn Addiction, Escalation, and Arousal Templates
- Seeking Integrity Provides a Unique Continuum of Care
- Finding Healthy Sexuality After Sex/Porn Addiction
- Does Using Porn Count as Infidelity?
- What Is Covert Incest?
- What Is Chemsex?
- Neglect is a Form of Abuse
- Understanding Childhood Trauma and Addiction
- Addicts: What Does Your Denial Look Like?
- Addicts: Protect Your Neck!
- Breaking Through Denial: The Power of Group Recovery
- Addicts: Can You Recognize Your Own Denial?
- Can You Really Be Addicted to a Behavior?
- Anxious Plus Avoidant: An Insecurely Attached Relationship
- Addicts: Is Your ‘Picker’ Broken?
- Healing Your Broken Relationship: Developing Empathy for Your Betrayed Partner
- After Cheating: Should You Stay or Go?
- The Psychological Consequences of Drug, Sex, and Paired Substance/Sex Addiction
- Decision Time: Your Marriage or Your Affair?
- Don’t Forget About Self-Care
- Tips for When You Feel Triggered
- The Spiritual Consequences of Drug, Sex, and Paired Substance/Sex Addiction
- Basic Tools for Sexual Sobriety
- The Interpersonal Consequences of Drug, Sex, and Paired Substance/Sex Addiction
- You Love Your Partner. So Why Did You Cheat?
- Sexualized Drug Use Can Hijack Sexual Desire, Part 2 of 2
- The Physical Consequences of Drug, Sex, and Paired Drug/Sex Addiction
- Sexualized Drug Use Can Hijack Sexual Desire, Part 1 of 2
- The (Cheating) Man in the Mirror
- Cheating Hurts Your Partner and Relationship, Even Before Your Partner Finds Out
- 60 Affirmations to Combat Shame, Negative Core Beliefs, and Addiction
- Can Single Sex/Porn Addicts in Recovery Date in Healthy Ways?
- Porn Users: Casual vs. At-Risk vs. Addicted
- Can a Behavior (Like Sex or Porn) Really Be an Addiction?
- The Longer-Term Impacts of Covert Incest?
- After Cheating: What (If Anything) Do You Tell Your Kids?
- Sexual Orientation is Not a Factor When Diagnosing Sex Addiction
- After Infidelity: Three Ground Rules for Healing Your Relationship
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Why It’s So Important
- Narcissistic Behavior vs. Narcissistic Personality Disorder
- Five Things Everyone Needs to Know About HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
- Things NOT to Do After Cheating: Blame Someone Other than Yourself
- Things NOT to Do After Cheating: Continue the Infidelity
- Things NOT to Do After Cheating: Continue to Lie and Keep Secrets
- Things NOT to Do After Cheating: Expect a Quick Fix
- Things NOT to Do After Cheating: Try to Control the Situation
- Four Great Reasons to Quit Porn
- Understanding Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction
- Always Keep the Need to Rebuild Relationship Trust in Mind
- What Happens in Sex, Porn, and Chemsex Treatment?
- Making Disagreements Productive
- Newsweek Covers Dr. Rob and Sex Addiction
- COVID-19, HIV, and Loneliness: Help From Dr. David Fawcett
- When and Why is Residential Addiction Treatment Necessary?
- The Search for Intensity: Drugs, Sex, Pairing Drugs and Sex
- Protective (Filtering and Accountability) Software for Recovering Sex and Porn Addicts
- The Great Porn Debate
- Recovery Reading for the New Year
- What We Do NOT Treat, and Why
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 12
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 11
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 10
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 9
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 8
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 6
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 5
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 4
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 3
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 2
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 1
Blog
- Addicts: Seven Ways You’ll Break Your Partner’s Heart (Yet Again)
- Sex Addiction: The Internet’s Triple-A Engine
- Anger Is Poison
- Responding to Your Fears and Questions About 12-Step Sexual Recovery Groups
- Common Signs and Symptoms of Sexual Addiction
- What is Infidelity?
- Understanding the Basics of Sex Addiction Treatment
- Betrayed Partners of Sex Addicts: Six Do’s and Six Don’ts
- How Pain May Promote Emotional Growth
- Quitting Porn: Will You Experience Withdrawal?
- What are the Primary Issues that Drive Porn Addiction?
- The Elements of Spiritual Abuse: Emotional Neglect
- What Is Prodependence?
- Trauma, Intimacy Issues, and Addictions
- With Sex Addiction Treatment, Betrayed Partners Matter!
- Did Your Cheating Partner Gaslight You?
- Insecure Attachment: The Tale of an Avoidant Male
- Spiritual Abuse: Understanding the Impact of the Power Differential
- With Sex Addiction Treatment, Expertise Matters
- Setting and Maintaining Healthy (Prodependent) Boundaries With an Addicted Loved One
- What Is Your Attachment Style?
- What Makes Seeking Integrity Different?
- Linking Spiritual Abuse to Sex Addiction
- Why Does It Hurt So Much? A Betrayed Partner’s Crisis
- What Do Betrayed Partners Experience After Discovery?
- Pornography: Five Facts Worth Knowing
- Betrayed Partners: Are You Grateful for Your Relationship?
- Cybersex Addiction: Getting Worse Over the Holidays?
- Simultaneous Treatment for Paired Substance/Sex Addiction
- The Seeking Integrity Glossary of Terms
- What is Sexual Sobriety?
- Tech to Help Your Sex, Porn, or Substance/Sex Addicted Partner Stay Sober
- Sex Addiction: Recognizing and Dealing with Internalized Homophobia
- Why Do Women Cheat?
- Why Do Men Cheat?
- Can You Anticipate and Deal with Relationship Hazards Before They Happen?
- Surrender to Win: The #1 Paradox of Addiction Recovery
- Super-Quick Porn Addiction Test
- Raised on Porn – New Documentary Film (37 min)
- Online Sex/Porn (Cybersex) Addiction, Part 2: What It Looks Like
- Online Sex/Porn (Cybersex) Addiction: Basic Information
- Instead of Telling Your Partner You Care, Show It
- Learn to Disagree with Your Significant Other in Healthy and Productive Ways
- Develop Empathy for Your Betrayed Partner
- Love is a Series of Actions (Not a Feeling)
- Are There Different Types of Cheating?
- What Is Infidelity, and What Is Not?
- Is Your Significant Other a Sex Addict? How Can You Tell?
- What is Sexual Addiction?
- Working the 12 Steps of Recovery: Step 7
- Meth, Sex, and the Dynamic of Power
- Can Adolescents Be Sex/Porn Addicts?
- Gay Men, Video Chat, and Chemsex: a Dangerous Combination
- Dr, Rob Weiss Leading Two-Week Sex/Porn Addiction Intensive
- What is Chemical Dependency?
- Chemsex Addiction
- Helpful Tech for Recovering Sex Addicts
- Understanding Sex Addiction in Women
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- How Technology and Masturbation Affect the Digital Age
- College Students Grapple with Sex, Intimacy and Porn While Dating
- New Views of Gender and Sexual Identity in Ballet
- Is Sex Addiction Real?
- Do Men Regret Sexual Misbehavior? Sometimes.
- Sexual Harassment Claims Have Spiked in 2018
- Looking at a Year of #MeToo
- Debunking Five Common Sexual Assault Myths
- Why We Should Listen to “Late” #MeToo Accusers
- Do You Struggle with Time Management?
- CBS Says Goodbye to Les Moonves at a Potential Cost of $20M
- In the #MeToo Era, Which States Are the Most Sexist?
- 76 State Lawmakers Accused of Sexual Misconduct since Jan 2017
- What Happens When a Woman is the Perpetrator?
- Sexual Misconduct: It’s Not Just a Politics and Entertainment Industry Issue
- When Men Challenge Women…
- Fox is Not the Only News Organization with Sexual Harassment Issues
- The Lesson To Be Learned from Papa John’s Toxic Workplace
- There is an Important New Diagnosis for Sex Addiction
- Press Release: New Diagnosis for Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder
- New “Compulsive Sexual Behavior Disorder” Diagnosis
- Webcam Medical Care: Increasingly Common
- Video Game Addiction Gets Official Diagnosis
- Sexual Harassment and Abuse Happens to Males, Too
- What Do People Really Think About Porn?
- Compulsive Sexual Behavior is Treatable
- Should We Force Addicts Into Rehab?
- Legal Hurdles to Justice for #MeToo Women
- Worried About Sexual Consent? Use an App!
- Religion vs. Domestic Violence and Abuse
- Screen Actors Guild Targets “Hotel Room Meetings”
- Sexual Harassment in a Family Business
- Has Cheerleading Changed in a #MeToo World?
- Is Fake Porn Ethical?
- Is Chemical Castration Cruel and Unusual?
- Sex Addiction Recovery Could Help Resolve the Harassment Crisis
- The Crushing Cost of Rehab
- Wynn Resigns: Investigation Ends
- A Perspective on Bullying
- In Florida, Guns are OK, Porn is Not
- What Teens Are Learning from Porn
- How Great Leaders Inspire Action
- How Tough Is It to Change a Culture of Sexual Harassment?
- Sexual Harassment Training Doesn’t Work. But Some Things Do
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- Support Groups for Adult Children of Alcoholics, with Gary Seidler, Part 2 of 2
- Couples, Conflict, and Resolution, with Stan Tatkin, Part 1
- Support Groups for Adult Children of Alcoholics, with Gary Seidler, Part 1 of 2
- My Husband Publicly Exposes Himself for Fun
- Why Is My Addict Such a Liar?
- He Just Doesn’t Care About Sobriety
- Can My Children Inherit This Addiction?
- Religion and Spirituality in Recovery, with Jason Swilling, Part 1
- If You Really Knew Me, You Would Leave Me
- How to Set Healthy Boundaries with Your Addict
- Can You Cure Narcissism?
- Sunday Podcast, Why Can’t I Get Past the 9th Step?
- When Is It Time to Separate from My Addict?
- My Addict’s Family Blames Me for His Addiction
- Can I Learn How to Be Intimate?
- I’m an Addict and I’m Attracted to My Female Coworker
- I’m in Recovery but My Partner Is in Active Addiction
- My Addict Doesn’t Trust Me. The Audacity!
- I’m in Recovery But I Still Have No Empathy
- She Had a Ring On, and He Respected It…
- I’m So Hurt. How Do I Even Begin to Process the Betrayal?
- He Cheated. Was My Entire Marriage a Lie?
- My Brother-In-Law Intentionally Triggered My PTSD. Do I Disown the Family?
- My Betrayed Spouse Thinks I’m Disgusting!
- The Road to Forgiveness, with Dr. Rob Weiss
- The Opposite of Addiction is Healthy Attachment
- He Watches Incest Porn. Are My Children Safe?
- His Sexual Fantasies Are Out of Control and It’s Turning Into Abuse
- Lust, Men, and Meth: A Conversation with Karl Anton-Gerber
- Should I Leave My Partner?
- How Do You Learn to Forgive, with Jessica Higgins, Part 2
- If You Don’t Sleep With Me, I Will Cheat On You
- How Do You Learn to Forgive, with Jessica Higgins, Part 1
- I Make the Money, So I Make the Decisions
- Financial Infidelity and Career Suicide, with Debra Kaplan, Part 2
- My Therapist Won’t Hold Me Accountable
- Financial Infidelity and Career Suicide, with Debra Kaplan, Part 1
- What’s the Difference Between Letting Go and Forgiving?
- Help! I Want to Relapse!
- I Broke Her Trust and I Keep Messing Up
- My Boundaries Keep Getting Violated!
- You Glorifying Your Addiction Makes Me Trust You Less
- He Emotionally Abuses Me. Is He a Sociopath?
- The Ripple Effects of Sex Addiction on Adult Children, with Dr. Ken Adams
- My Addict Keeps Accusing ME of Cheating, But I’m Not!
- When You Put In the Work, You Will See the Benefits
- Let’s Talk Podcast: Dr. Rob Weiss and Dr. Aaron Weiner Talk Sex Addiction
- How Does Addiction Affect the Family Unit?
- I’ve Been in Recovery for Two Years. Why Are Things Not Back to Normal?
- Is He a Chronic Cheater, Or an Addict?
- Why Does My Addict Cause Me So Much Pain?
- Abuse Happens to Boys, Too, with Carol Teitelbaum
- Is Addiction Genetic or Is It Environmental? With Dr. Evelyn Higgins
- Is He Just White Knuckling His Way Through Recovery?
- If You Can’t Hold on to Hope, Let Someone Else Hold It for You
- Addiction, Mental Health, and Psychology, with Dr. Aaron Weiner, Part 2 of 2
- My Addict Keeps Shutting My Emotions Down
- Addiction, Mental Health, and Psychology, with Dr. Aaron Weiner – Part 1
- My Addict Still Acts Out. Should We Get Back Together?
- Controlling the Chemsex Epidemic, with Ignacio Labayen De Inza
- Addiction is a Disease of Disconnection. The Cure is Connection.
- He’s Sober, But Still Emotionally Walled Off
- I Feel Hopeless and Defeated with My Addict
- Healing Work, Healing Home, Healing Me, with Doug Tieman, Part 2 of 2
- Healing Work, Healing Home, Healing Me, with Doug Tieman, Part 1 of 2
- Are You Bad or Are You Just Broken?
- My Husband Doesn’t Realize He’s an Addict. How Do I Talk to Him?
- How To Get Over Betrayal and Cheating, Part 2
- You Have to Make Recovery Fun or You Won’t Make It
- I’m Trying to Get Some Empathy
- Without Accountability, There Is No Recovery
- Addicts, Your Urges Pass. The Discomfort Is Only Temporary.
- The Important Impact Ballroom Has Had on the LGBTQ+ Community
- Every Time I Stop My Addiction, I Have a Panic Attack
- The Most Destructive Thing in a Relationship is a Lack of Honesty
- I Am Grateful to be a Recovering Addict
- FREE Deep Dive Videos for Addicts and Alcoholics
- Understanding Cybersex Addiction