If you want a vacation, don’t go to SI:LA. If you want to be coddled, don’t go to SI:LA. If you are ready to be fearless and face your demons and say F*** YOU to your addiction, then this is the place for you. I am now a little more than a month out from leaving SI:LA, and I am 100% certain I made the right choice.

I am beginning to think you may still have my husband at Seeking Integrity. The man you sent home is present, supportive, and sane. If you still have my old husband there, please keep him. I like this new guy!

I am coming up on 18 months sobriety and honestly could not have done it without Seeking Integrity’s help. The program changed my life, and I am so grateful for it.

After many years of addiction(s) and acting out (sex, marijuana, control, eating/drinking), my husband finally did some deep work at SI:LA that clearly has made an impact on him! Every penny we spent for SI has been a worthy investment.

Getting treatment at Seeking Integrity is one of the best decisions I have ever made. I walked into the program an insecure, confused, and fragmented individual. I walked out with the clarity, confidence, and community I needed to feel whole. I feel I am now living a healthy life.

Now that I have experienced how Seeking Integrity and their staff handle my clients with compassion and expertise while staying in close communication with me during their inpatient experience, my high expectations are happily confirmed. The results with my client were striking. Seeking Integrity is a solid referral I can make with great confidence.
Nan Tilbury, LPC, CSAT

I just finished my four-week treatment at Seeking Integrity, and it was an amazing experience. I’m beyond grateful to the team for the work you’re all doing. I truly believe that going to SI:LA saved my life.

Your support to me when my husband attended SI:LA was invaluable. You went above and beyond your job to sincerely talk with me at a time when the trauma and pain I was experiencing was excruciating. I’m forever grateful.

Plain and simple, Seeking Integrity changed the trajectory of my life.

Dr. Rob Weiss and his team provided exceptional clinical care and communication with me while my client was attending the Seeking Integrity program. Because it is a smaller program, my client was not overwhelmed with 20-30 people.

Michelle Holloman, MS, LCAS-A, CSAT

When I arrived, I was full of shame, denial, and depression. Dr. Rob and the SI:LA team helped me learn about rigorous honesty, consequences, and vulnerability. Exercises and sessions allowed me to get in touch with my emotions, trauma, and enmeshment, examining personal experiences that had been locked deep inside of me. I will always be grateful!

My husband has been out of SI:LA four weeks now. He goes to meetings every day and just got a sponsor he really respects (talks to him daily, does homework for him, etc.). He’s seeing his CSAT weekly and loves working with her. His entire demeanor has changed. It’s as if I have my husband back, but a better version.

Seeking Integrity gave me my life back, a life I didn’t even know I had lost, and for that I’m forever grateful.

My experience with Seeking Integrity is that they go above and beyond to help the addict, the spouse (if there is one), and the referring clinician, which is huge for me!

To therapy staff: Thank you, thank you; a thousand times, thank you. The safe space created by you (the staff) allowed me to delve into secrets I thought I would take to my grave, and helped to release some of the shame that fueled my addiction. In just a matter of days, you turned around my perspective and gave me hope for myself and my marriage.

This “thank you” is long overdue. I’ve seen a huge change in my husband, which I believe would never have happened if he didn’t attend treatment and receive guidance from your entire team. He’s still having difficulty with his commitment to be rigorously honest, but he has remained sober from porn and masturbation and that is a HUGE accomplishment!

SI:LA is only the beginning of a lifelong journey, but it was exactly what I needed to get on the road to recovery. A full (and sober!) year out of Seeking Integrity and my life has never been better.

I continue to be incredibly grateful for the services and support that SI:LA provided me. From my partner’s stay in treatment up until today, all of the workshops, blogs, rooms, and groups. SO MUCH support.

After SI:LA, I have hope that one day at a time I can be the man, the husband, and the father that I always meant to be.

Looking back on my experience at SI:LA: I will take with me a belief in myself, a renewed connection to my wife, and an appreciation of what I can gain through sobriety.

Seeking Integrity was my bridge from the overpowering feelings of shame, guilt, and despair to a new life of clarity, peace, and hope.

I’ve struggled with alcoholism and compulsive sexual behavior for many years; it’s ruined relationships and devastated the lives of people who loved me. The insights and therapy I got at SI:LA were profound and have launched me on a new, sober life—a way back after so many years of darkness and addiction.

I picked up my one-year medallion tonight! Thanks to Seeking Integrity and everyone there for your part in helping me to get to this point.

I trusted, I surrendered, and I let something wonderful happen to me. Today, I am home, using the tools and keeping the commitments necessary for a real recovery. I am openly sharing everything with my wife, and I have never felt better in my life. Thank you to everyone at Seeking Integrity, and to all my fellow SI alumni.

Although the program of recovery is just starting for me, I’ve gained the knowledge and experiences at SI:LA to achieve victory over this disease.

The therapists at the Seeking Integrity treatment center were all exceptional. I recently reconnected with one of them on a Zoom call and I felt a well of emotion, with powerful feelings and memories of the center all flooding back. My time there was life-changing.

I am forever grateful to the entire Seeking Integrity team and very proud of myself for committing to attend this life changing treatment program, which has saved me from my addiction and also saved my family and marriage.

Seeking Integrity truly changed my life. I was lost, alone, and very scared when I first started my recovery journey. I was on the brink of losing my family and my relationship and I needed help. The entire team at Seeking Integrity was passionate and caring towards me and I immediately knew that I was in the right place. They also did an amazing job providing support for my spouse while I was away.

Thanks again for all your guidance and support during my time at Seeking Integrity. I have to give a special thank you and shout out to Vince as well, who has been incredibly kind and compassionate (not to mention a world-class therapist) both during my stay and after I returned home from SI:LA. This entire experience has been transformative and enlightening, and I can’t thank you all enough.