Infidelity vs. Addiction
Not every person who commits infidelity qualifies as a sex or porn addict. In fact, the majority of individuals who betray a loving partner are not addicted. So, if your betrayed spouse has sent you to this website after learning you cheated (perhaps not for the first time) and you’re wondering if we can help you stop your sextracurricular behavior and repair your damaged relationship, stop wondering. The answer is yes, we can.
Generally speaking, infidelity has less to do with the specific sexual and romantic behaviors in which you’ve engaged, and more to do with the fact that you’ve been keeping important secrets and lying to cover up your behavior. Usually, this is what hurts most for your betrayed partner. She (or he) is now wondering if anything you say or do (or anything you’ve ever said or done) can be trusted. You partner is thinking: If you lied to me about something as important as our relationship, what else are you lying about?