Seeking Integrity presents fresh blogs and podcasts on a weekly basis that discuss all aspects of intimacy disorders, such as: chronic cheating, sex addiction, porn addiction, paired substance/sex addiction. Our writing and podcasts offer empathic understanding toward the healing and treatment of such complex, debilitating problems. Wide-ranging topics include how to identify and diagnose sexual addiction, porn addiction, and substance/sex addiction, understanding infidelity, how to choose a useful addiction rehab as well as what to expect from addiction treatment. Our blogs and podcasts take a deep dive into the role of 12-step work and therapy, what it takes to heal an intimate relationship after profound betrayal and a library of information on self-care, addiction recovery and related mental health concerns. If these topics are of interest to you, please explore them by clicking the links below.
Scott Brassart When I first entered recovery, my therapist asked about my personal boundaries, as well as the boundaries I’d grown up with. And honestly, I did not know...
Dr. Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT Franklin is a 33-year-old married father of twin daughters. Several years ago, he started to regularly use online porn. His sex life with his...
Scott Brassart One of the biggest hurdles of recovery for many recovering sex, porn, and substance/sex addicts is attending their first 12-step sexual recovery meeting. In fact, addicts who...
Dr. Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT The Addict’s Partner Alice is the wife of an active porn addict. When she and her husband Jackson met and married, she knew that...
Dr. Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT Sex and porn addicts often arrive in treatment with co-occurring issues – unresolved early-life trauma, another addiction, a depressive or anxiety disorder, shame, and...
Dr. David Fawcett When substance use is consistently mixed/paired/fused with sexual behavior, substances and sex become mutually reinforcing. Over time, a single set of fused cues, triggers, actions, and...
Dr. Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT In the space below, I have compiled a list of common boundary violations. This list is especially applicable to sex, porn, and substance/sex addicts...
Alex Hardwicke To begin this discussion, let me first identify three primary categories of boundaries: External Boundaries: Protect the body, control distance, control touch. Internal Boundaries: Protect thinking, feelings,...
Dr. Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT Typically, learning about your partner’s sexual addiction leaves you in a daze—stunned, hurt, uncertain, and unable to fully assimilate and accept what has happened....
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