Seeking Integrity presents fresh blogs and podcasts on a weekly basis that discuss all aspects of intimacy disorders, such as: chronic cheating, sex addiction, porn addiction, paired substance/sex addiction. Our writing and podcasts offer empathic understanding toward the healing and treatment of such complex, debilitating problems. Wide-ranging topics include how to identify and diagnose sexual addiction, porn addiction, and substance/sex addiction, understanding infidelity, how to choose a useful addiction rehab as well as what to expect from addiction treatment. Our blogs and podcasts take a deep dive into the role of 12-step work and therapy, what it takes to heal an intimate relationship after profound betrayal and a library of information on self-care, addiction recovery and related mental health concerns. If these topics are of interest to you, please explore them by clicking the links below.
Dr. Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT For a long time, clinicians treating people with porn-related issues found that all (or at least the vast majority) of such clients had a...
Scott Brassart Typically, individuals who want to quit porn do so for one or more of the following reasons: They are addicted to pornography, and they are experiencing negative...
Dr. David Fawcett No shame is more powerful than sexual shame. Often, sexual shame is linked to unresolved early-life sexual trauma. People who experience sexual abuse, neglect, violence, verbal...
Tamara Cooper Prodependence vs. Codependence If you’re a betrayed partner, especially if your significant other is sex, porn, or substance addicted, you’ve probably had someone suggest that you read...
Alex Hardwicke Recovering sex and porn addicts inevitably ask, “What does healthy sex look like?” They ask this question because at some point they realize that they have no...
Dr. Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT Sex and porn addicts uniformly report that escalation is a part of their addiction. Over time, they find that they need to spend more...
Scott Brassart OK, I need to give credit where credit is due: I first heard the “not porn” concept from my friend Tim Stein, a highly regarded sex addiction...
Tami VerHelst What is Loss Aversion? Loss Aversion is a cognitive bias where the emotional impact of a loss is felt more intensely than the joy of an equivalent...
Tamara Cooper If you’ve been cheated on, it’s likely that you also experienced some degree of what psychologists refer to as gaslighting. Gaslighting, in case you’re wondering, is a...
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