Author Archives: Scott Brassart

Monday, May 10th, 2021

The Longer-Term Impacts of Covert Incest?

On May 13th, Seeking Integrity and our free resource website SexandRelationshipHealing.com are sponsoring a free webinar discussing covert/emotional incest and mother-enmeshed men. This one-hour webinar with Q&A is hosted by...
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Monday, May 3rd, 2021

What Is Covert Incest?

On May 13th, Seeking Integrity and our free resource website SexandRelationshipHealing.com are sponsoring a free webinar discussing covert/emotional incest and mother-enmeshed men. This one-hour webinar with Q&A is hosted...
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Monday, April 26th, 2021

Cheating Men, Empathy, and Relationship Healing

Scott Brassart Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another sentient being. Addicts often behave as if they lack this ability. This does not mean...
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Monday, April 19th, 2021

Have You Crossed the Line? A List of Common Boundary Violations

Scott Brassart For the past three weeks, we’ve been discussing interpersonal boundaries, looking at why they are so important, misconceptions and facts, and areas of life in which we...
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Monday, April 12th, 2021

Areas of Life In Which to Set Healthy Interpersonal Boundaries

Scott Brassart In previous posts to this site, we’ve discussed why healthy interpersonal boundaries are so important and the various misconceptions some people have about interpersonal boundaries. This week,...
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Monday, April 5th, 2021

Misconceptions and Facts About Healthy Boundaries

Scott Brassart In my previous post to this site, I introduced the concept of healthy interpersonal boundaries and why they are so important, citing two primary reasons: They protect...
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Monday, March 29th, 2021

Why Are Healthy Interpersonal Boundaries So Important?

Scott Brassart When I first entered recovery, my therapist asked about my personal boundaries, as well as the boundaries I’d grown up with. And honestly, I did not know...
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Monday, March 22nd, 2021

Basic Tools for Sexual Sobriety

Scott Brassart In an article last week, I wrote about how recovering addicts can stay sober even when they are strongly and unexpectedly triggered. Basically, this is a three-step...
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Monday, March 15th, 2021

Tips for When You Feel Triggered

If you’re a recovering addict, it is inevitable that you will at least occasionally feel triggered toward relapse. You’ll find yourself feeling lonely or bored or anxious or stressed...
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