Seeking Integrity can light a path of hope for you!
You can become a man of honor and integrity
You can live without shame or secrecy
You can heal at Seeking Integrity
Seeking Integrity Treatment for Sex and Porn Addiction
Seeking Integrity Treatment for Paired Sex and Drug Addiction
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What is Seeking Integrity…

Seeking Integrity is a cutting-edge, expert-guided, addiction treatment organization dedicated to helping men eliminate troubling patterns of addictive sexual behavior and paired sex and drug addictions (chemsex). Seeking Integrity’s intensive therapeutic healing environments are designed to break through the intense layers of shame and pervasive denial that nearly always surround adult problems involving sex and drugs. Our work is designed for men who, often due to early life trauma, neglect, and/or profound adult losses tend to self soothe and emotionally escape via sexual fantasy and sexual acting out with or without co-occurring drug abuse. Our program’s strong focus on personal growth via evolving strong peer bonds and personal accountability is designed to lead each man toward his own personal and relationship integrity with the help of licensed experts. At Seeking Integrity, we invite our clients to move beyond addictive self-obsession, addictive behaviors, and narcissism to ultimately understand and embrace the responsibilities that come with adult relationships and family life.

If you ask yourself, “Why can’t I stop cheating? Why can’t I stay clean and sober? Why can’t I keep promises, especially those made to myself? Why do I keep hurting the very people I love?” we can help. Those working within our programs are trained to respond to every man and his life-partner/family regarding the answers to these questions and so much more.

We are experts on sex and/or drug addiction treatment and provide shame-free help.
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Why Seeking Integrity is Unique

Seeking Integrity’s highly specialized, intensive addiction program—over 25 years in the making—was pioneered by internationally known clinical sexologist, expert, author, and media presence Dr. Rob Weiss, who first created The Sexual Recovery Institute in Los Angeles in 1995, one of the first intensive outpatient treatment programs in the US for sex and pornography addiction. Since then, Dr. Rob has penned nearly a dozen books, including Sex Addiction 101, Cruise Control: Understanding Sexual Addiction in Gay Men, Out of the Doghouse, and most recently the family healing focused Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency. Over the past 25 years, Dr. Rob has continued to grow and expand his services to include the creation of multiple residential addiction treatment programs around the country as he has worked to educate both therapists and the general public on technology’s impact on our sexual and intimate lives, particularly on those suffering from sex and porn addictions. Dr. Rob is committed to creating holistic and lifestyle integrated approaches to addiction care to help men, women, partners, and their families heal from these painfully shameful disorders.

Dr. Rob and international treatment expert Dr. David Fawcett have joined together at Seeking Integrity to evolve comprehensive, truly individualized treatment for sex addiction and paired sex and drug addiction. Dr. Fawcett’s book, Lust, Men, and Meth, is the definitive work in the treatment of paired drug and sex addictions (chemsex). Thus, the Seeking Integrity team is led and facilitated by global experts in the fields of behavioral and drug addictions, together having over 60 years of clinical expertise. Dr. Rob Weiss and Dr. David Fawcett, along with the Seeking Integrity team, work daily to create truly unique and effective treatment experiences for sex and drug addictions.

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Seeking Integrity How we can help

No one has to walk this journey alone. No wife, no husband, no addict, and no loved one needs to search for healing by himself or herself. Seeking Integrity provides a 24/7, comfortable, monitored, safe, supportive living environment paired with an accountability-based treatment model implemented by clinicians trained to meet the needs of each man’s real-life situation and circumstances. There is no ‘cookie-cutter’ approach here! You need only engage us for treatment and then begin to apply the comprehensive tools that so many have followed before to change your life.

  • Expert-Driven Treatment
  • Technology-Informed Care
  • Monitored Living Environment
  • Accountability-Based Model
  • Trauma-Informed Treatment
  • Recovery-Based Peer Support 
  • Professional Assessment & Evaluation
  • Individualized Treatment Plan
  • Ongoing Spouse/Partner Dialogue
  • Communication with Referring/Attending Professionals
  • Real-Life Aftercare Planning

Don’t let shame block your path. Sex and drugs need not define you.
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Do You or a Loved One Need the Seeking Integrity Program?

  • My wife discovered pornography hidden on my computer, and then she found all the rest.
  • I can’t stop thinking about hooking up.
  • I have no real life or relationships, it’s all about getting high and having sex.
  • I have been to treatment for drug addiction, but I keep relapsing over sex.
  • I’ve been caught more than once using porn at work. This time I may lose my job.
  • No one knows how depressed I feel. I want to stay clean and have a healthy sex life, but I struggle all the time,
  • I want a real relationship, yet I spend my time with drugs, hookers, and porn.
  • My wife found my sexts to a co-worker and wants a divorce. I may lose my kids.
  • I am struggling with drinking and using because of my sexual orientation.
  • I was sent to a Physician’s Health Program for abusing Viagra and Speed. I could lose my license.
  • Holding on to affair partners and porn took away my family. Now I want help to regain my dignity. 
  • After endless therapy and 12-step programs, I’ve lost hope about changing my addictive sexual problems. Why try again?
  • I may be losing my license, my professional practice, and my world. Who helps men with sexual problems?

Our Clinical Leadership

Chief Clinical Officer Robert Weiss PhD, MSW

Dr. Rob is a digital-age sex, intimacy, and relationship specialist. He has spent more than 25 years developing treatment programs, educating clinicians, writing, and providing direct care to those challenged by digital-age infidelity, sex and porn addiction, and other addictive disorders. He is the author of ten books on sex and intimacy issues, including the pivotal volume on sex and porn addiction, Sex Addiction 101.

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VP of Clinical Programming David Fawcett PhD, LCSW

Dr. David is a substance abuse expert, certified sex therapist, and clinical psychotherapist. He founded and chaired the South Florida Methamphetamine Task Force, a national coalition addressing the meth epidemic. He also founded Meth & Men South Florida, recently rebranded as No More Meth. He is the author of the only book on fused substance/sex addiction, Lust, Men, and Meth.

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Seeking Integrity Digital-Age Healing and Recovery

Seeking Integrity was founded in the fall of 2017 by Dr. Rob to move treatment for sexual health, intimacy disorders, sex addiction, pornography addiction, relationship/love addiction, and traditional addiction treatment for substance abuse into the 21st century. Today, much of our daily lives at home and work now occurs online through the Internet, Facebook, Instagram, apps, Twitter, blogs, podcasts, etc. With that being our experience, today’s recovery support, self-help, and recovery education no longer need to be limited to face-to-face experiences at workshops, 12-step meetings, and the local coffee house. 

Dr. Rob and his team first developed a no-cost, open access website,, which offers a wide range of information and interactive resources relating to infidelity, sex and porn addiction, substance use linked with sexual behavior, other sex and relationship issues, and sex therapy. The next step was opening Seeking Integrity treatment centers—environments that meld cutting-edge treatment theories regarding attachment trauma and addiction with digital technology.

To this end, Seeking Integrity treatment programs incorporate ongoing, no-cost online discussion groups, educational webinars, and other meetings as a part of every client’s aftercare program. This keeps each client in regular contact with the support network that helped the client establish sobriety/recovery, no matter where they live.

At Seeking Integrity, we believe very strongly that building and maintaining a supportive community of recovery (both online and in the real world) is a key to long-term healing. We ask: Why help people build healing connections only while they’re in treatment? Why not set up ongoing online support so wherever a client might be, he or she can always connect with friendly, empathetic, and familiar support? This is a big part of what separates us from other treatment providers.

A Full Spectrum of Care Support for Spouses, Partners, and Other Loved Ones

As Dr. Rob developed cutting-edge addiction treatment, he also embraced the need for a fresh approach to viewing and treating spouses, partners, parents, and other loved ones of addicts. This led him to develop the concept of Prodependence. This fast-growing model for the treatment of loved ones of addicts pushes aside the long-standing, often problematic challenges of codependence, replacing that blame and shame-filled model with a more loving and compassionate attachment-based model.

Dr. Rob introduced the concept of Prodependence in his book, Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency. He felt compelled to write this book after three decades spent watching countless spouses, partners, and parents walk away from much-needed therapy and support because they felt labeled, shamed, blamed, and pathologized by a treatment model (codependency) that didn’t fit. Since publication in early 2018, Prodependence is changing the way therapists around the world work with loved ones of addicts and other troubled people.

Other Seeking Integrity Communities

The mission of Seeking Integrity is to create and evolve an accessible, comprehensive, engaging, and interactive continuum of care—both online and real-world—for people seeking to heal problems with intimacy and addiction. To this end, we have created multiple online and real-world venues.

In addition to Seeking Integrity, we offer:

Our Free Online CommunitySex and Relationship Healing

Sex and Relationship Healing is an online, interactive community providing free information and support to anyone affected by infidelity, sex addiction, porn addiction, paired substance use and sexual behavior (sometimes referred to as chemsex), and other sex and relationship issues. The site offers a sex and porn addiction self-screening test, a paired substance use and sexual behavior self-screening test, written information about a wide variety of sex and relationship issues, webinars hosted by well-known therapists, moderated drop-in discussion groups, access to Dr. Rob’s “Sex, Love, & Addiction” podcasts, daily inspirations, resources, and more. All are welcome, and everything on the site is available at no charge.


A New Concept in Addiction Healthcare for the FamilyProdependence

Prodependence is a new concept in addiction healthcare. It improves the ways we think about and treat loved ones of addicts, offering them more dignity for their suffering than blame for the problem. Pushing aside the dated codependency model, Prodependence chooses to celebrate and value a caregiving loved one’s willingness to support and stay connected with an addicted family member, while also promoting healing for the entire family.


Enabling Cultural ChangeBusiness Integrity

Seeking Integrity also works with professionals who may be experiencing challenges in their workplace tied to inappropriate sexual behavior, use of pornography, boundary violations, and/or substance abuse tied to sexual behavior. Many such professionals find their credentials, license, and very employment under the review of Human Resources, Administrative Review Boards, Physicians or Lawyers Health Programs, or Boards. The need for cultural change in American business and industry speaks loudly about these issues in the #MeToo movement, with a seemingly endless stream of allegations of discrimination, sexual harassment, and sexual misconduct by men in positions of power. We see bringing workplace misbehavior into the light as key to changing the behavior. Seeking Integrity works closely with professional men and their Physicians Health Program, Lawyers Assistance Program, or administration to address these needs.

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