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Intimacy, Relationships and Addiction

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Sexual Addiction
Paired Substance Abuse and Sex
Betrayal Trauma

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Seeking Integrity Treatment Programs

Seeking Integrity’s Residential Treatment Programs and Weekend Workshops are designed by experts to break through the shame and pervasive denial that nearly always surround sex addiction, porn addiction, substance/sex addiction, chronic infidelity, and related issues. Our strong focus on relationship awareness, peer bonds, and personal accountability leads the men and couples we help toward personal, sexual, and relationship healing. We invite our residential treatment and weekend workshop clients to move beyond self-obsession and addiction, and to become the best possible version of themselves.

If you are wondering why you can’t stop hurting yourself and the people you love, or why your loved one can’t stop hurting you, we can help you find answers. Click here or call us (747) 234-4325 (HEAL).

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Do You Need the Seeking Integrity Program?

Our clients come to our treatment center for these reasons.

Sex and Porn Addiction

  • My wife found hookup apps on my phone, and a whole bunch of sexts. Now she doesn’t trust anything I say or do. And I’m still hooking up.
  • Porn has taken away my sexuality. When I try to get close to people (not pixels) I barely get turned on at all!
  • I keep deleting hookup apps, only to reload them the next day. My spouse warned me, as did my co-worker (who caught me using apps during the day). I swear to myself that I’ll stop, but give it a day or two and I’m right back at it.

Chemsex (Meth/Cocaine/Stimulant Sex)

  • I could buy a car with all the money I’ve spent on cocaine, hookers, and hotel rooms. And yet, every few weeks I find myself back on a binge. Despite all my efforts, once I start thinking about doing it, I can’t stay away.
  • I went on a five-day run with meth and sex and didn’t even call in sick to work. And this isn’t the first time I’ve skipped work to party. My career is at stake now.
  • I’ve given up on having a meaningful relationship. Instead, I just hook up for sex and PNP. Then it’s rest and repeat. Sometimes I forget to rest.

Co-Occurring or Paired Substance Abuse and Sex

  • I never wanted to be into transgender women. I just wanted to get married to a regular woman and settle down. But the only sex I seem to enjoy is with trans women, so I get high to do it. I hate myself a lot, but at least I can enjoy sex when I’m loaded.
  • Sex was never boring as I was almost always drunk or high when having it. I loved having sex when I was high. But now that I am sober, I don’t seem to want anything to do with it. What’s wrong with me?

Relationship Trauma and Betrayal

  • Despite my pain and anguish, my husband won’t stop using porn or having webcam hookups. He says it’s not cheating because he’s not actually having actual sex with a live person. But it sure feels like cheating to me. Why can’t he consider my pain over his desires?
  • I found hookup apps on my partner’s phone along with the texts that show he’s actively using them. So now I know he’s been lying. What do I do next?
  • I found out my husband was cheating on me when my doctor told me I had an STD. When confronted, he denies it. How can I get him to come clean so we can move forward?

Our Clinical Leadership

Robert Weiss PhD, LCSW

Dr. Rob is a digital-age sex, intimacy disorder, and relationship specialist. He has spent more than 25 years developing addiction rehab programs, educating clinicians, writing, and providing direct care to those challenged by infidelity, sex addiction, and porn addiction. He is the author of numerous books on relationships, addiction, and technology, including the most widely used and up-to-date book on sex and porn addiction, Sex Addiction 101.


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David Fawcett PhD, LCSW

Dr. David is a substance abuse expert, certified sex therapist, and clinical psychotherapist. He founded and chaired the South Florida Methamphetamine Task Force, a national coalition addressing the meth epidemic. He also founded Meth & Men South Florida, recently rebranded as No More Meth. He is the author of the only book on paired drug and sex behaviors, Lust, Men, and Meth, and co-producer of the acclaimed documentary film, Crystal City


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Join Our Free Online Community SexandRelationshipHealing.com

Sex and Relationship Healing is an interactive online community providing free information and support to anyone affected by infidelity, sex addiction, porn addiction, paired substance use and sexual behavior (sometimes referred to as chemsex), and other sex and relationship issues. The site offers written information about a wide variety of sex and relationship issues, webinars hosted by well-known therapists, moderated drop-in discussion groups, access to Dr. Rob’s and Dr. David’s “Sex, Love, & Addiction” podcasts, daily inspirations, resources, and more. All are welcome, and everything on the site is available at no charge.

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Digital-Age Healing and Recovery

Seeking Integrity was founded in the fall of 2017 to move treatment for sex addiction, pornography addiction, and paired substance use and sexual behavior into the 21st century. We recognize that in today’s increasingly digital world, much of our daily life, including addictive behaviors, takes place via digital technology. With that knowledge, we believe that support and recovery for these issues should no longer be limited to face-to-face experiences at rehabs, workshops, 12-step meetings, and the local coffee house. 

At Seeking Integrity, we believe very strongly that building and maintaining a supportive community of recovery (both online and in the real world) is a key to long-term healing. To this end, our treatment programs incorporate ongoing, no-cost online discussion groups, educational webinars, and other digital work as a part of every client’s treatment and aftercare program. Our goal is to keep each client in regular contact with the support network that helped him establish sobriety and recovery, no matter where he lives.

A Full Spectrum of Support for Spouses, Partners, and Other Loved Ones

As Dr. Rob created cutting-edge addiction treatment, he also embraced the need for a fresh approach to viewing and treating spouses, partners, parents, and other loved ones of addicts. This led him to develop the concept of Prodependence. This fast-growing model for treating loved ones of addicts pushes aside the long-standing, often problematic challenges of the old codependence model, replacing that blame and shame-filled approach with a more loving and compassionate model.

Dr. Rob introduced the concept of Prodependence in his book, Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency. He felt compelled to write this book after three decades spent watching countless spouses, partners, and parents walk away from much-needed therapy and support because they felt labeled, shamed, blamed, and pathologized by a treatment model (codependency) that didn’t fit. Since publication in early 2018, Prodependence has changed the way therapists around the world work with loved ones of addicts and other troubled people.

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